| WHY DO PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN | | | | WHICH ARE COMMON FELT REACTIONS IN A |
| LOVE | | | | MARITAL CRISIS? |
| The marriage vow holds a lot of commitment power, | | | | The feeling of fear comes as a result of financial |
| "to have and to hold, from this day forward, for | | | | insecurity. The spouse will be embarrassed to tell |
| better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness | | | | family and friends about the breakup. You can't save |
| and in health, until death do us part", but these words | | | | your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate. |
| of commitment are seldom ever fulfilled. "They lived | | | | Marriage experts mention that there is more than |
| happily ever after", this is the common ending of | | | | one path, possibly 8. |
| fairy tales and subconsciously in the minds of all | | | | HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY |
| those who plunged into the tender trap of marriage. | | | | HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY? |
| ARE IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER IN THESE | | | | Here are some helpful pieces of advice. Then, assess |
| SYMPTOMS AND SIGNS? | | | | how deeply the extent of the relationship is. Arrange |
| If your spouse is becoming apathetic, this could be a | | | | a civilized meeting with your spouse after your rage |
| sign of a marriage crisis. If you spouse is keeping | | | | has subsided. |
| their distance from you or if your spouse is ignoring | | | | WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A |
| you while you are in his presence most of the time | | | | HAPPY MARRIAGE? |
| there may be other logical reasons why your spouse | | | | You can save your marriage and save yourself from |
| is behaving in this way. This may only be an old | | | | heartaches by making the changes that you both |
| remedy but here is a simple test to vouch if your | | | | need. Be the first to initiate reconciliation and be sure |
| spouse loves you. Before this painful moment of | | | | to resolve your conflict before you both fall asleep. |
| truth that your spouse is leaving you, there were | | | | Disillusionment grows when expectations are |
| probably signs of your spouse's departure | | | | unfulfilled. The first action to save a marriage would |
| beforehand. If your spouse has turned you into a | | | | be for the couple to recognize that there is an actual |
| broken record and you are always arguing about the | | | | problem and to do whatever is needed to defeat the |
| same topic, repeating the same words and phrases | | | | problem. Accept her weaknesses and failures after all |
| over and over again then this is a common problem | | | | nobody is perfect. Strive to live everyday to the |
| that all married couples have when they run out of | | | | fullest with your spouse. If the problem is dealt with |
| words to express themselves. You have to show | | | | in a positive manner, there will be much chance of |
| that you are on your spouses side and that you care | | | | staying away from divorce, If you want to save |
| when they are in a bad mood. If your spouse doesn't | | | | your marriage, talk to your other half. |
| give you the attention that they showed you before | | | | WHAT ARE WAYS TO PRESERVE YOUR |
| you tied the knot then this could be a sign that your | | | | MARRIAGE |
| marriage is on the rocks. | | | | When you appreciate yourself, the feeling will |
| WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO AT THE BRINK OF | | | | contaminate your husband and he will feel the same |
| MARRIAGE? | | | | way too. This is the most damaging causing people |
| And the internet offers many resources without | | | | to procrastinate and react properly. Make the |
| cost, you just have to surf to their website, their | | | | initiative to be intimate with your spouse by getting |
| inputs will serve as your line of defense to combat | | | | rid of any distractions, holding hands, cuddling, |
| marital crisis. Try using a different approach, the by | | | | watching the sun rise, listening with your heart and |
| ways are plentiful. Take notes of the following things | | | | sharing your feelings. Strive to eat at least one meal |
| not to do such as don't accidentally push your spouse | | | | a day together. But remember that in the future, it |
| out by your impulsive reactions or outbursts, don't | | | | will only be the two of you. Don't ever use the word |
| push your spouse to file a divorce, don't shower your | | | | divorce every time you fight. Myth 2. |
| spouse with with insults and hurtful words, don't be | | | | CAN THIS MARRIAGE BE SAVED? |
| overpowered by your rage, instead play it cool by | | | | You transform into a much better new you. |
| keeping your temper intact. If you are committed to | | | | Unfortunately, there is no course in any school on |
| save your marriage, ask yourself what made you fall | | | | how to build a successful marriage. According to |
| in you with your spouse. Books aplenty are sold in | | | | statistics, there are 2 million divorces each year. |
| your favorite bookstores. | | | | |