Ultimate Self Defense - The Truth About Fear

Most of us are brought up not to be afraid.Most people mistake it for panic and don't know how
Well-meaning parents, siblings or other relatives toldto take advantage of it. Harness the adrenaline dump
us over and over not to be afraid. Children in schoolsto your advantage.
have teased us calling us scaredy cats. We've beenAdrenaline only stays for ten minutes or so in the
brought up to think that fear is a bad thing and thatbody. However, due to additional stress hormones
it should be avoided.being released, the physical, mental and emotional
When we do feel fear, we panic because we thinkeffects of a physical or verbal confrontation can last
it's some how wrong. Let me tell you that is absolutefor several hours, or even days.
nonsense!You might be edgy, nervous or extremely emotional
Fear exists for a reason. It exists to keep us safefor days. Some people experience confusion, guilt and
and stop us from being foolish. Imagine if you had nooutbursts of crying. All this is completely natural. You
fear. What kind of risks would you take? Peoplehave to give yourself time to recover and be sure
would jump off buildings, drive like maniacs, startnot to punish yourself. There is no point in thinking "I
fights, and do all sorts of crazy things.wish I had done this or that" or "why didn't I do
Make no mistake, fear is a good thing to experience.something..." or "I should have..." Thoughts like these
The important thing is not to let your fear overcomewill not help. Be thankful that you are alive and make
you. A coward and a brave person both feel fear.sure you learn from your experience. It's not your
The difference between them is that the bravefault.
person controls his fears, while the coward lets hisMany martial art clubs around the world now also
fear control him.provide adrenaline stress response training with their
When you do experience fear, do not hold yourstandard self defense classes. Some people find
breath! Make sure you keep breathing calmly. This willthese very helpful when done in a class with others
help you overcome it.and a teacher explaining things in more detail. Some
So there you have it. If you know what adrenaline ispeople are able to control their adrenaline dump while
and how it works, you can use it to your advantage.others find it a bit more difficult.