| People are marrying when they fall in love | | | | per session. After you determine that your marriage |
| You do not need to go into marriage blindfolded at | | | | is in crisis, you could react like a rubber ball, and |
| least you know what to expect. "They lived happily | | | | bounce back. The first 3 reactions are negative and |
| ever after", this is the common ending of fairy tales | | | | not remedial measures. |
| and subconsciously in the minds of all those who | | | | You can't save your marriage if your spouse does |
| plunged into the tender trap of marriage. | | | | not cooperate. Myth 3. Things will not work out by |
| Are there symptoms and signs of impending marital | | | | themselves, you have to take a hand. What are |
| disasters? | | | | some damaging myths about saving a marriage? |
| If your spouse no longer reacts to those critical | | | | Myth 1. |
| spats that once held a significant value to them or is | | | | How do I save my marriage after my husband |
| no longer the initiator of spats and arguments with | | | | committed infidelity? |
| you like they use to, then that is a definite sign that | | | | Let your spouse lay their cards on the table and tell |
| the marriage could be coming to an end. If your | | | | you their side of the story. You are faced with the |
| spouse has turned you into a broken record and you | | | | problem of your spouse having an affair with another |
| are always arguing about the same topic, repeating | | | | person. The two of you should have a heart to heart |
| the same words and phrases over and over again | | | | talk. |
| then this is a common problem that all married | | | | What are some helpful guidelines for a happy |
| couples have when they run out of words to | | | | marriage? |
| express themselves. If you spouse is keeping their | | | | Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody |
| distance from you or if your spouse is ignoring you | | | | is perfect. Jealousy, the green-eyed monster, is like a |
| while you are in his presence most of the time there | | | | harmful pest in marriage and a sure way of driving |
| may be other logical reasons why your spouse is | | | | your spouse away. Sometimes relationships are lost |
| behaving in this way. | | | | because the individual fears to face the truth. |
| Save Your Christian Marriage Counseling can and will | | | | Emotionally or physically abusing abuse a spouse will |
| work if applied. | | | | bring the day closer to disaster, when he/she will |
| Ertha Kitts' song "Little Things Mean Lots" can serve | | | | decide that enough is enough. If you love each other, |
| as a guide on how to make your marriage work. | | | | there is no barrier that can break the knot. |
| Remember your romance and why you married your | | | | Resentment for past hurts will eat away the love of |
| spouse in the first place and be proactive in seeking | | | | your partner. They should avoid common behavior |
| new ways to seduce your spouse and turn them | | | | that is likely to make a dent in their relationship, this |
| back into the lover they used to be. If your spouse | | | | harmful behavior must stop. |
| excludes you from their circle making you feel as | | | | Can marriage be preserved by you? |
| though you are no longer are part of their world | | | | This is the most damaging causing people to |
| anymore it is a sign that a divorce is near. Jealousy | | | | procrastinate and react properly. You will be |
| between you and your spouse wont work, it will only | | | | conditioning his mind on his next move. Get to know |
| make the boat tip causing the marriage sooner than | | | | the person sleeping beside you each night. It is during |
| you think. | | | | this occasion that you will be able to talk freely about |
| What will you be doing when you are at the brink of | | | | positive happenings which concern you both. What |
| marriage? | | | | are some damaging myths about saving a marriage? |
| Change the channel of your awareness by reacting | | | | Myth 1. Write each other love notes, reminders that |
| to stressful situations differently. And the internet | | | | you are in love, reconnect by emphasizing your |
| offers many resources without cost, you just have | | | | spouse best qualities and remember these are the |
| to surf to their website, their inputs will serve as | | | | qualities which made you fall in love with him. You |
| your line of defense to combat marital crisis. Is your | | | | should improve your communications skills to keep |
| marriage worth the effort of learning new ways to | | | | your marriage. |
| reconnect with your partner? If there will be no | | | | Is it possible to save a marriage? |
| action now, how much regret will you feel be over | | | | Looking into Save Your Christian Marriage Counseling... |
| the loss of a spouse? How much pain are you | | | | The quality of a marriage does not end on avoiding |
| enduring because of your spouse's departure? How | | | | disagreement. Yes, marriage can be saved but it is |
| committed are you in keeping your marriage? | | | | not easy as kissing the bride. It is a herculean task |
| Marriage counselors are available to offer good | | | | requiring both spouses to participate. |
| advices but they will charge as much as 80 to 120 | | | | |