Fight or Flight Situation for Self Defense

My wife gave birth to our second child April 30, 2009.If I didn’t have the OC spray available and the
There were some complications that have forced mylatter occurred, someone would have probably been
little one to remain in the hospital until Mother’shurt badly or worse. Remember, my little girl is the
Day. As a result, I am shuffling back and worth totruck and I would have fought to the death to
the hospital at all times of day and night. Ironically onprotect her. The spray prevented that from
May 6th at about 5:30pm my four year old and Ihappening. In less than a second the “threat”
were walking to my truck; when an unexpectedwas neutralized, which gave me ample time to call for
situation occurred.help. At the same time no one was hurt permanently
As we were nearing my vehicle, I hear someone inor seriously. Law enforcement was able to transport
the distance. I look over and spot a large manthis man without resistance.
jogging toward us. As he is running he’s lookingI wanted to share this with you because it’s real
over his shoulder and shouting “get away, leaveworld stuff. First, we were in a hospital parking lot.
me alone”. The problem was no one nor nothingThis is a place that should be and I assumed was
was there! The fact that my little girl was with mesafe. Next, this did not happen at 2 or 3 in the
really had me on guard and the adrenalin startedmorning. Instead, the sun was shining and it was at a
pumping. The “fight or flight” reflex hadtime when many people are coming and going to
definitely been triggered in me.visit. Had my pepper spray been packed away
This guy is about 50 yards away but jogging towardsomewhere and not readily available there could have
me and continuing to yell that someone or somethingbeen trouble.
that wasn’t there. I put my girl in the truck andThis is why I stress awareness and preparation in
locked the doors. At about 25 yards I yelledevery aspect of your life, especially your safety and
“Can I help you?”. There was no responsesecurity. I’m no hero, what I am and was is
and he continued. At about 10 yards I yelledprepared to handle a situation like this because
“stop, don’t come any closer”. Still noI’ve practiced for it in my mind over and over
response. At about 5 yards I pulled my pepper spray,again. The second part and just as important is the
aimed and fired.awareness piece. Had I been involved in a cell phone
He stopped almost immediately and began screamingconversation, or had my IPOD playing, or just not
then went down to his knees. He was incapacitated,paying much attention I could have been in trouble. I
so I called the police to come and pick him up. Turnswould have been prepared but not aware, thus very
out this guy ran away from a mental health unit thatvulnerable to attack.
was also located on the hospital premises. WithoutI encourage you to get and utilize some form of non
going into much detail, this was a very ill and mentallylethal self defense for yourself and family members.
disturbed individual. Had I not stopped him, he mayIt literally can mean the difference between a good
have run right by me or he may have asked me toand bad outcome. During this situation, I was carrying
help him or he may have attempted to attack me orFox Labs spray in my pocket.
my daughter.