Defend Yourself! A Life Saving Tip to Remember When You're Learning "Self-Defense"

In the U.S. Alone, there is an assault every 17martial arts schools, do you really think that he's
seconds. But, before you shake your head and thinkgoing to worry about you?
that this a uniquely "American" thing, the statisticsEven if you think, or been taught, that you'll have the
don't look that much better in other places aroundadvantage because you'll have the element of
the globe. And in many places - they're actuallysurprise when you whip out your XYZ technique; the
worse!truth is that he will have already beat you to that
If you've been studying martial arts or self defensebecause he will already be in attack-mode when he
for any length of time, you're probably aware of thegoes into action. You, however, will not be.
problem. In fact, that's probably why you train in theYou will need to "catch-up" - mentally, physically, and
first place. If you're like me, you want to be able toemotionally.
keep yourself, and your loved-ones, safe fromWhat you'll also have to do is to deal with more rage,
criminal activity, and the brutalizing advances ofanimosity, and violence then you've ever dreamed
someone who wants to take what you have.possible. You will be in a world that is so different
But, in the midst of all of your training - while you'refrom your martial arts or self defense classes that
developing the skills of your particular form or styleyou might feel as though you don't know anything at
of martial arts - developing the so-calledall. Even myself, and everyone else who's ever "been
"self-defense" tactics, strategies, and techniques thatthere," and had to work through the chaos of an
you've collected up to now - I wonder if you haveattack, find it very difficult to describe and make
really been preparing for "Him."sense of it logically. Because... It's NOT logical!
No. I don't mean "God." I mean, I wonder if you'reSo, the bottom line is this... In a real-world self
really as ready for your assailant as he's going to bedefense situation - not a bar fight where you decide
ready for "You." And the reason that I wonder this -to go at it with another emotionally-deficient,
the reason that "you" should be asking the sameinsecure, and intoxicated child-in-an-adult's body - in
question is because......Your attacker won't care if youthe fight of your life, you are going to have to be
know self defense! Seriously. Let's think about thisable to use the very same tools and weapons that
for a second or three.your attacker is using.
If you're attacker picks you as a target, do youYou're going to have to be able to be as violent, as
really think that he's worried that you'll use karate orintent, and as un-caring as him, and about him - if you
some self defense on him? After watching thewant to be on this side of the grass tomorrow!
stylized and "respectful" training that goes on in most