| This aspect of dealing with rejection syndrome | | | | success, you must be ready to arm or equip yourself |
| requires deep understanding. You have read in most | | | | with necessary fact that can enable you handle any |
| inspirational books on how to succeed, but most of | | | | form of “NO” or rejection. |
| these books discuss little or nothing of how to handle | | | | In all societies, developed or underdeveloped, there |
| the dangerous two lettered word “NO”. In | | | | are lots of mean fellows who do not appreciate |
| most cases, you have ended up a good relationship | | | | other people’s success or efforts. They create |
| because a friend, a wife, a husband, a business | | | | public criticism, shout horrible insults and create |
| partner, associate or acquaintance said “NO” | | | | avenues to ridicule you, your family, friends and |
| to your greatest need. Yes indeed, nobody wants to | | | | associates. These groups of never-do-well can create |
| be rejected by anyone else but in daily human | | | | different forms of rejection. If you don’t |
| relationships, one should anticipate such and be | | | | understand them for what they are, you may give |
| prepared to give an articulate positive reply that can | | | | room for a negative mental attitude within you. |
| neutralize its effect. If you have not mastered this | | | | There should be no room for inner intimidation which |
| art, you have to do so. Don’t just accept | | | | indirectly affects your physical stand for success. Be |
| defeat. Don’t accept intimidation. Learn to say no | | | | sure you train yourself in the art of controlling |
| to no. Learn to fight back. | | | | external rejection, no matter whom it comes from. If |
| This instruction is in line with the military philosophy | | | | you accept yourself and able to develop enough self |
| which states that “If you want peace, you must | | | | confidence, you will be able to handle any form of |
| be prepared for war”. If at all you want grand | | | | rejection. |