Martial Arts, Crime, Our Children

As a martial artist and an expert in behaviorala people and media which expresses and stresses
modification, I see a lot of illegal behaviors reinforcedthe negative actions of our society. No do not blame
by citizens. It is easy to reinforce the behavior of asociety or the media. Have you attempted to do
criminal, give him or her your wallet, make it easy foranything about crime yourself? We have to decide, if
him or her to break into your house, do not call thethe trouble of calling the police, reporting a break-in, a
police, always assume it will happen to the othermugging, a rape, or anything suspicious is worth the
person and not you. By making it easy for thesafety of our own children and our children's children.
criminal to get your money, jewelry, body, orAs martial artists we have another decision to make.
whatever he or she is after, we positively reinforceDo we stand by and allow another person or
their negative behavior by allowing the criminal toourselves to be mugged or raped, or do we help
have instant gratification of his or her actions withoutthat person, at the risk of our own lives. The first
any consequences to the negative behavior.way, we may make society safer for our children,
As martial artists, we have even more responsibility.but then our children may never see us again. The
The very act of taking martial arts lessons, impliessecond way, we allow another human being to be
that we are aware that crime may happen to us orinjured or killed and aid in corrupting our future. Even
our loved ones. As martial artists, we should havea shout, yelling that someone called the police or the
taken steps to decrease the chances of crime,police are on there way is better than doing nothing.
making criminals "work" harder for their "reward".I received permission to reprint this with hopes it will
Reward here is being defined as a positivemake us think
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society. Unfortunately in most cases, if the criminalDO ALL THE GOOD YOU CAN:
finds bars on the window he or she just goes to theGod has a way of allowing us to be in the right place
next house. That small amount of time, however,at the right time. I was walking down a dimly lit
could be the determining factor as to whether or notstreet late one evening when I heard muffled
that criminal is caught.screams coming from behind a clump of bushes.
Obviously, criminals have peers and friends, some ofAlarmed, I slowed down to listen and panicked when
these may also be criminals. If you are in a classroomI realized that what I was hearing was the
of first graders and one of the first graders hasunmistakable sounds of a struggle: heavy grunting,
ice-cream, what question is more than likely going tofrantic scuffling and tearing of fabric.
be asked by every first grader there who doesn'tOnly yards from where I stood, a woman was being
have ice-cream? Need I say it? At this point who isattacked. Should I get involved? I was frightened for
the center of attention and being rewarded by themy own safety and cursed myself for having
attention of his peers for having ice-cream? Yes, thesuddenly decided to take a new route home that
first grader with the ice-cream is being rewarded withnight.
attention for having the ice-cream. The first graderWhat if I became another statistic? Shouldn't I just
will brag about how he or she got the ice-cream andrun to the nearest phone and call the police?
the other students will do the same thing to acquireAlthough it seemed an eternity, the deliberations in
ice-cream as well.my head had taken only seconds, but already the
Too simple of an example? "I mean come on Rickcries were growing weaker. I knew I had to act fast.
we're talking about responsible adults here notHow could I walk away from this? No, I finally
children. That's different right?" No, it's not. As adults,resolved, I could not turn my back on the fate of
we still receive positive and negative reinforcements,this unknown woman, even if it meant risking my
many of us enjoy being the center of attention,own life!!
belonging to a group, and being recognized for ourI am not a brave man, nor am I athletic, I do not
work. Oddly enough the same behavioral modificationwant to get involved. Will my Martial Arts training I
techniques used on children also work on adults (seehad years ago help even though I have never used it.
Modern Teaching Methods of An Ancient Art for aI don't know where I found the moral courage and
few examples).physical strength---but once I had finally resolved to
By allowing criminals to receive their rewards for theirhelp the girl, I became strangely transformed.
negative behaviors we are positively reinforcing theirI ran behind the bushes and pulled the assailant off
criminal behavior and motivating others to follow thethe woman. Grappling, we fell to the ground, where
same behavioral pattern since others do not see anywe wrestled for a few minutes until the attacker
consequences of the original criminals actions, only ajumped up and escaped. Panting hard, I scrambled
chance for immediate gratification.upright and approached the girl, who was crouched
Just because a criminal robbed someone with a knifebehind a tree, sobbing. In the darkness, I could barely
and did not stab the victim this time, does not meansee her outline, but I could certainly sense her
the criminal will not stab the victim the next time.trembling shock. Not wanting to frighten her further, I
The odds of any criminal killing someone whileat first spoke to her from a distance. "It's OK," I said
threatening the victim with deadly aggressionsoothingly. "The man ran away. You're safe now."
increases the more crimes the criminal commits. ByThere was a long pause and then I heard the words,
giving that criminal your wallet and not calling theuttered in wonder, in amazement.
police, by not reporting that you have been raped,"Daddy, is that you?" And then, from behind the
by not pressing charges when you have beentree, stepped my youngest daughter, Katherine!!. Do
attacked, reinforces that criminal behavior and thatall the good you can, In all the ways you can, in all
criminal will strike again. More importantly, withoutthe places you can, at all times you can, to all the
consequences for the criminal's negative behavior,people you can, as long as you ever can.
this behavior will be copied by others and you will be-End letter
responsible for not helping to stop that criminal, anI cannot stress this enough, our actions, will have a
increase in crime, and for the next string of victims.direct effect on our children's safety and our
This has a direct effect on our children, both ingrandchildren's safety. We are the one's who decide
keeping our children safe, from an ever growingwhat type of society, crime-ridden or crime-free our
population of criminals due to our ownchildren are going to live in. When someone is
lackadaisicalness and negligence, and in raising ourattacked or robbed and does nothing about it, that
children to be good men and women surrounded byhas an effect on your child.