Self Defense: Why Most Adults Drop Out of Martial Arts Classes

The most surprising statistic that most karate andrush right out and get into a few fights? Should they
martial arts teachers discover is the one that tellsgo hang out in the seedier side of town and wait to
them "why most of their adult students quit shortlybe mugged, raped, or beaten?No, of course not. But,
after enrolling." In fact, the greatest percentage ofthey can, like their students, go in search of real
adult dropouts from martial arts classes occurs withinexperts - people who have "been there" and who
the first 100 days!This has sparked some groups tocan help them learn what they need to know in
investigate the reasons behind this phenomena.order to help the people who come to them for this
Surveys have been conducted both in the Unitedtype of knowledge.Of course, this may require that
States as well as in Canada. Additional inquiries maythey suck in their pride and get a check on the old
also have been conducted in places like Europe andego. But, as everyone knows who has been in an
Australia as well.What the researchers found was, toactual violent confrontation with a dangerous
them, incredible. They found that, by and large, theattacker, you need to "check your ego at the door"
number one reason for adult students dropping outif you're going to survive.Teaching self-protection
of their programs was......no real-world self-defenseskills to others is a huge responsibility. And one
training early on in their training!"How could this be?",perhaps that's too great for a lot of people who are
was the question. The researchers were stunned.teaching for purely personal reasons.There is another
After all, they were martial arts teachers and theyoption available, however; just in case the primary
certainly taught self-defense as a part of theirone is totally unacceptable. And that option is simply
classes.How could these adults say that they weren'tto......stop trying to teach self-defense if they're not
being taught real-world self-defensequalified.By all means, an instructor can, and should,
techniques?Perhaps, the problem was not thatcontinue to teach his particular style of martial art.
"self-defense techniques" were or were not beingBut he should stop trying to convince intelligent,
taught. Because, even after these studies weregrown adults, that he knows what he's talking about
conducted and karate programs started to "import"with regards to surviving a violent attack if he
third-party self-defense packages into their productdoesn't. He should remember that people are placing
offering, adult dropouts remained high.Maybe thetheir lives in his hands every time he open's his
problem was in perception. Maybe students justmouth, or demonstrates a technique. I'm not sure
couldn't see how the "stylized" movements of awhether or not many instructors have thought about
centuries-old system could be applicable against athis. But they should.After all, most martial arts
street attack against a stiletto or 'Saturday Nightinstructors teach honesty as one of the major
Special'-wielding assailant.It's certain that studentstenets and character traits of a black belt master
were not seeing and hearing what they thought theyand leader. Wouldn't this be the "honest" thing to
should in order to believe that they were gettingdo?The moral here is that, if a martial arts or karate
what they needed to survive such an attack. Even ifteacher wishes to teach self-defense - if he or she
these students don't know what 'that thing' reallywants to get and retain adult students looking for
looks like, their gut-level feeling was that, "this stuffthis type of training for the long-term, they really
isn't going to work."Maybe the problem - what adulthave no choice but to do what they must.They, like
students are looking for - is in something even moreevery other information-based professional, are in
crucial to learning self-defense against violentbusiness to provide a service. They must decide
attackers. And maybe this "thing" was easier towhat that service is and whether or not it includes
identify by novices than by trained instructors whoreal-world self-protection against violent attackers
had been indoctrinated into sport systems.Maybewho don't follow the rules of fairness and respect
what was lacking in all of these programs wasfound in martial arts schools and karate
something the real experts like totournaments.They should also know this......no
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actually applying that information to produce viable,and students may never tell them that they don't
proven results. As the old saying goes, "those whobelieve or trust them. But, rest assured that if
can - do; and those who can't - teach."And, whatthey're not getting what they've paid for, they're
adult students are looking for is someone who "can"gone.As a final thought, and one that I live by. What
AND "teaches" others how they can as well.Now, thisif, some day, "I" must depend on one of my
isn't to say that most martial arts instructors don'tstudents to protect me from a dangerous assailant
know their arts and the techniques and skills thatfor whatever reason. Wouldn't I want to make sure
come with them. Most certainly do. And these peoplethat what he or she learned was really going to
are very good at what they do.However; there is awork?I know I would!Jeffrey M. Miller is the founder
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